Reciprocal… respect!

Reciprocal respect is the basis of genuine unity. We should endeavor for a spirit of harmony, not for political or economic reasons, but is quite simply because we understand the value of other traditions. We always make an effort to promote religious consensus.

Referring to Griswold .W. who said; respect cannot be hunted. It cannot be purchased. It is never for sale. It cannot be fabricated out of public relations. It comes to us when we are alone, in quiet moments, in quiet places, when suddenly realizes that, knowing the good, we have done it; knowing the beautiful, we have served it; knowing the truth we have spoken it.

When we give respect, we also get respect in return; Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends is more applicable to interpersonal relationship.

Having respect for others creates respect for you. For example, your reputation is enhanced when others feel respected and treated well in your presence. Being someone that people enjoy interacting with can easily earn you recommendations, letters of support, and a kind word about you to others.

Respect is give-and-take because it increasing your friendships and acquaintances means increasing the number of people in support of you.

Respect help you getting to know more quality people through having respect for others lays the foundation for your better life.



Humorous story of potential and reality

A childrens comes home from school with a writing assignment. They asks there father for help. "Dad, can you tell me the difference between potential and reality. " His father looks up, considerately, and then says, "Let's make an expression out of this. Go ask your mother if she would sleep with Rob Smith for a million rands. Then go ask your sister if she would sleep with Steve Gusy for a million rands. Then come back and tell me what you've acknowledge."
The children are confused, but they decide to see if he can figure out what his father means. Then they goes to his sister’s room and asks her, "Sis, if someone gave you a million rands, would you sleep with Steve Gusy? His sister looks up and says, "Absolutely!” The children go back to his father and say, "Dad, I think I've figured it out. Potentially, we are sitting on two million bucks, but in reality, we're living with a couple of Prostitution.”

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself.

We all lie to our selves, but why do we lie? Sure, lying to our salve is both useful and sometimes we acquire it like fun, yet there are fundamental reasons why we lie; Altruistic Reasons, Fear of rejection, Fear of punishment, Fear of harm and Fear of conflict. We lie for our salve because it mostly works. According to “Tad Williams” said, we tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think, afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie, the thing that we fear grows stronger.
The consequences of lying to our salves can be reflective negative impact on our lives both socially and in extreme cases legally. Lying comes in many forms and variations depending on the situation it is to be used in; verbal, writing, physical issues, behavior and thoughts, the fundamental cause are the truly interesting issue.
When people lie to themselves can it be innocent, or is it an indicator of a deeper failure of morals? Because when peoples find out that you are a liar obviously the person has harmed He/her reputation to the public.
It is a poor idea to lie to yourself… because Lying causes anxiety, depression and physical illness. After you lie to someone, you may not like being around that person. Lies ruin friendships, work relationships and marriages. If someone catches you lying, he or she won't easily believe you again. Your status in that person's eyes will drops to zero.

About me and what I like.

I have strong sense of my own influence while at the time exhibiting an adventure some spirit and leadership qualities, as for me. I am always deeply interested in philosophy or religion for powerful ideas often attract powerful people and also like established of a social nature is to be defended and served to the fullest.

I came from quite humble backgrounds but I never forget my roots and also value my authority and sharply reasoning mind above all else. I have a kind of wiliness or cunning that is leading me out of the most difficult situation in the respect of my morals.
I like learning to be less possessive by giving up material possessions from time to time will be an important lesson for me to learn. Beware that I am selfish, especially in the name of family, where it passes as filial or parent responsibility.
I enjoy taking myself serious perhaps too much so, I like to laugh at myself from time to time- discover lighter side of life, I am always try to be less judgmental. My weakness I am the kind of human being that like dominant and is impatient on everything that I do. I have quick –tempered and I can’t relax is too impetuous for me. I enjoy arguments and I won’t give up when loosing, I will come across too strong and dislike tears and emotions.
An also always set for some new and enriching experiences in life and exhibits his fearless and brave face towards the realities of life. I am kinds of guy who is energetic and has great entrepreneurial skills. Also very ambitious, hardworking, exciting and plans carefully for the future. I would like to have a partner who would be totally organized. Particular when it comes to planning her future. The best way to get with her is to go according to the plans she has attached out for life.
Extravagance has always been my weakness. I would never resign to the dictate of others, but may be hostile and illogical when dealing with those who fall under my supervision. And be totally enthusiastic about my work and show a great determination to succeed. My ability is progressive and quick to demonstrate my ability to do good work, tends to gain rapid promotion. These are my strengths; I am born leader because I have the charisma and also have dynamic and active compulsive need for change.
I am the kind of person that must correct wrong things and have strong-willed and decisive unemotional, I am not easily too discouraged also independent and self sufficient. My system of learning is hearing and listening, this help me a lot by understand and remember thing I have heard, I store information by the way it sound and I prefer listening over reading and writing.
I like learning by reading out loud because I have to hear it or speak it in order to know it, I probably hum or talk to myself or other if I become bored, sometime peoples think I am not paying attention even though I may be hearing and understand everything being said. I have an easier time understanding spoken direction or instruction than one that are written down. This is all about me and what I like.

Not all who wander are lost

The guy, on the verge of panic, finally regains his composure. "So what's the good news?

Once upon a time, when I was a young boy in high school, I was very sick having stomach pains all over digestive system was very painful, I was unable to eat anything accept water, tea and juice nothing else.
On the following day I went to hospital to find out what was the problem, I met the doctor after the consultation tests the doctor told me that I have an Appendix and Hernia at the same time, he told me that I need to be operated to remove them form my stomach.
Since I was born, I haven’t experience any surgery in my life, I was so anxious that I could not control myself I ask the doctor if there’s any possible way that he can give medications instead of removing appendix and Hernia he said that is impossible the only solution is to do the surgery.
All I could think about was that I am going to die after the surgery.
After the consultation with the doctor I went home to tell my parents what happened, they said to me what are you still waiting for; I told them that the doctor wants do to an operation I refused because I thought I will die because I heard that Appendix and Hernia killed somebody on the spot.
Two days later at night at 1:30 AM the stomach pain started again, the pains were worst and uncontrollable, I started shouting the next place I saw myself the next morning in hospital with plasters on my stomach. So guess what? The surgery was successful I realize that not all who wonder are lost!

Fish falling from the sky

Fish falling form the sky is reference to biblical (Exodus 16) this is usually happened in olden days where Israelites were given the riches of material provision in the form of manna. “When Manna falls from heaven and had to be collected early in the day” when people of world are still enjoying the world and walk with the fear of God.

Nowadays, people are living in selfishness, greed, and a number of other sins, poverty, different kinds of diseases, and problems all over the worlds, there is no fear of God because God has given us freewill.

Sadly a lot of times we use that freewill to hurt other people.

We live in a world that basically chooses to ignore God, refuse to ask for His help, and yet are very quick to blame him when things go wrong.

Fish can still fall from sky only when you giving your life over to God. will not stop the suffering, but at least He will carry the burdens for you, and give you peace that passes all understanding.

How do you step from the top of a 100-fool pole?

It is all about the strength of mind climbing up that pole and having to take a risk in order to accomplish what you want in life. Step from the top a 100-fool pole is all about “take the risk and joins the billionaires” In life we place of all our dreams add goal, because we afraid of failure, and give up trying. 

                 

When we look at successful people, their success has nothing to do with luck at all. Indeed behind their success is hard work, taking risk, making mistakes and gain benefit out of all. Life is all about taking risks and stepping from the top of a 100-fool pole is all about risk taking to enable you as person, to achieve your mission  of survives.